The Book

The Weight of the Ring: Untangling Purity Culture’s Lies

This isn’t a book about throwing away everything you were taught. It’s a book about untangling what was cultural from what is biblical—and discovering that purity was never about performance. It was always about relationship.

With personal story, cultural insight, and gospel-centered hope, The Weight of the Ring helps readers heal from the shame-based purity narratives of the past and move forward into a life shaped by grace, not fear.

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